Revealing your Secrets

Who do you turn to first as a confidant?
If it’s your best friend you’ve got company or you’re running home to say it in your Mom. For whomever you’re comfortable of telling your secrets I may say that telling secrets is one of the children cares that we must observe.

Do you remember when you’re at one or two of age your mother is the first person who will know everything about you, no if’s and doubts you will tell to her. Truly our trusts are bigger before than today. We fell comfortable and secure if we share our happiest and sadness experience in our life when where was a kid. But as we grow old bit by bit our trusts become smaller and sometimes we don’t want to share it to her. It all began in our school a place where we met our friends, best friend of whom we share your greatest secrets, your first crush and even your enemy. Our friends become too influential that we don’t even care that our Mom is most concern about what’s happening in our life. As we go outside our home and see the real world, we are exposed to sinful things and when we get into it we started to lie in our parent the secrets that we always wanted to hide. From trust it became fear because we’re afraid for the punishment that parents will surely do to us for every wrong that we did. It’s always a sin of why the word "secrets" exist in this wicked world.

I remember during my high school day, after a busy day at school going back at home I just go to my bed and sleep. I don’t even tell anything about my Mom because they are not asking me by the way. Today I guess some kids also does that, but now after school they almost wanted to chat with their friends in facebook or text his or her classmates whom he or she conversant before going home. They aren’t spending time to talk with their Mom because her Mom also busy in their household chores and some where not there because they are at work. Those situations make it hard for us to reveal our secrets with our parents.

I also remember when I was a child I always wanted to behave at all times. My Mom doesn’t even know that I’ve been hit by my classmates and bully before. I don’t even say to them because I much concern with them and I want peace at all. Up to now I have my greatest fear to tell my parents about my secret. Not telling this means that I don’t trust them but I wanted to protect my reputation and his reputation too. Only one person knows and it’s my friend today and thanks’ to her she help me to reveal. I decided to tell to her because we had the same experience, no need to worry because I know I can trust her and she will not judge me. I know that this is erroneous because the only person that will help me to face this hard situation is my family. From the start they are the one who teach me to be strong and not to fear anything but I was foul because they know from the inside that I am alright but the inner of me was destroyed and I am very sorry for my parents because they don’t even know. It’s very hard for me to tell to my family and I know I am not the only one who experiences it.

Our parents truly the one who understand us. As a mother help our kids during their early age to communicate to you everyday for your kids not to experience this kind of fear that I have until now. Always ask your kids about what’s happen in their day. Never skip the day that you wouldn’t able to talk to them even if you’re sleepy and tired always spend and find time before they sleep, during their breakfast or dinner just a little conversation will be meaningful so that they have no fear and develop their trusts in you. And as you go along you will observe that your child will be the first to approach you and happily start the conversation. Always give them attention and guidance so that as they grow old they can easily reveal their secrets and you’re foremost to know